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Weddings, Parties & Social Events
2011-10-20 12:08:56
Have reality shows changed the bridal industry?
Q: I love the reality shows about weddings and wedding dresses. I am just wondering if they are actually near “reality”.
A: We have all watched the “reality” bridal shows such as Say Yes To The Dress! This program in particular highlights the bride to be and her storyline and the day to day challenges of a retail bridal store. An increasing number of viewers tune in to see all types of drama and occasionally they are rewarded with brides and their family members displaying some of their worst behavior possible. But, at the same time the retailers plight is highlighted and provides the viewer education as well as entertainment. A bride to be may gain some insight into understanding their future conduct at a bridal appointment and what they should expect from their bridal consultant. It is hard to distinguish fact from fiction and we all know these shows are not really “real”. People tend to act unnatural and different in front of a camera. In the real world, the bride wants to be pampered on her special day and she should. But entitlement levels have risen beyond the realm of reality since the induction of bridal reality shows an increase in attitude changes have become so popular that demands are sometimes overwhelming. Brides want to try on every gown a store has to offer and this creates trouble when making a decision. Communicate with your bridal consultant to figure out what style you may be fond of and what is best for your body type and budget. Not to mention it can be exhausting! Let the consultant know what your budget is so they can help you find the perfect dress in your budget. It is always heart wrenching to watch a bride on TV fall in love with a gown that she cannot afford. So let the bridal consultant help you select gowns that she knows are perfect for you.
Many times on the reality shows the bride is followed in by her entourage of 10-15 of her “closest” friends and family members. Remember, you are the one getting married and need the find the dress of YOUR dreams. It is best to let everyone see the dress after you have purchased it and made your decision. If they are a true friend they will love whatever gown you have chosen because they love you. Bring to your appointment one-four of your friends or family members. Too many opinions can cause friction and confusion. This is a fun and exciting time in your life! Your bridal appointment should be an experience to remember and enjoy! A relationship between you and your consultant is a special one, they know bridal gowns and you know you! A great combination can be a reality that is natural and true…
