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House & Home
2012-08-29 14:49:59
Downsizing for seniors
Q- My parents are moving to a smaller home in a retirement community. How do I help them downsize from their current residency?
A- We know that each situation like this is different. People are unique. There are many ways to do this and one way is not the only way.
To begin the downsizing process, have conversations with your parents and your siblings, preferably without in-laws, a family meeting. This conversation should include who, what, when, and where about belongings. This should happen as soon as they begin thinking about moving. Allow time for everyone to be part of the conversation. Listening especially to your parents is very important. Often it takes more than one conversation. The main goals are to hear what parents want, have everyone hear together, and be on the same page. This time together may also provide a good opportunity to review their Will, its location and how to access it; determine who has Power of Attorney for Healthcare and Finances; and review their wishes regarding end of life care.
Remember when starting the downsizing process to take it slow. You may want to photograph and video the current residency if it has been their home for many years. Family members who have possessions stored at the home need to remove them to a different location. Start small, you may want to begin with a room like the bathroom since it would mean less decision making. Obtaining a layout of the new residence will be helpful in determining what items can be taken. Larger pieces of furniture may need more consideration about whether or not they can be moved.
When thinking about their possessions decide what:
• to keep – what can be moved to the new residence
• goes to family – labels, family auction, bingo, etc.
• to donate – Goodwill, DAV, Church fundraising auctions, etc.
• to sell or recycle – Freecycle, Craigslist, ebay, Consignment
• to throw away – 1 dumpster for every 15 years
There are professional moving companies that can be hired to do this work for you. Sometimes an outside third party may be necessary. This is something to consider if you are not living near your family.
Remember, “Don’t think of downsizing as getting rid of prized possessions, instead, see it as a process that is necessary to enjoy a simpler, less complicated life.” – Standolyn Robertson
