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Senior Living
2012-11-19 11:46:23
What are the pros & cons of assisted living?
Q- We are at the point of considering assisted living for a loved one. There are a number of decision makers, or at least those who have an opinion in this process and, naturally come from differing viewpoints. Can you give us some ideas of the pros and cons to help us sort out if it is time to make this step?
A- Most people expect a senior transitioning to assisted living would have trouble, but are surprised to find that it is hard on loved ones as well. There are so many emotions involved and many people do not realize that facing these decisions dredges up everything from our own fears of loss to our reluctance to let go of what we have always known. The decision is monumental, so you can expect a time of adjustment.
However, though emotional, it is a good idea to weigh out the advantages and disadvantages, as best as you are able, to affirm your decision. Here are a few of the basic things that help most people decide.
Depending on your choice of residence and the funds with which you are working, the price of an assisted living might be considered a disadvantage. It is a service, and like any service, there is a price. The price may be weighed against the current situation, or against other possible solutions to get a better grasp of whether the cost is a disadvantage, or an over-all advantage.
For some, moving anywhere could be difficult. Some have lived in their home the largest portion of their lives and find the surroundings comfortable, and more importantly comforting. In these cases, staying in the neighborhood and to an assisted living where friends already reside may be helpful.
Particularly when there is a roommate, adjusting to sharing living space and dealing with any compatibility issues could be an issue. However, on the other side, living in assisted living on some level forces some socialization and is helpful in keeping seniors healthy and active.
The advantages, even in light of possible disadvantages, usually help most seniors make transitions. Things such as easy access to health care, transportation, and wellness programs are all huge advantages.
Other advantages such as housekeeping, laundry, dining, and personal care assistance help reduce the possibility of accident or injury.
Finally, having planned activities and a group of familiar faces helps seniors stay involved and connected to others.
I hope this helps your family member, and all those that love him or her, to make a decision that all can find comfort in. Best wishes to you all.
