 | Jennifer Schooley is the Co-Director of Vie Medical Clinic located at 613 N. Broadway, Suite C in Pittsburg. For more information or to reach Jennifer please call 620-235-0608
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Health & Wellness
2013-05-29 11:40:49
How can I manage life now that I'm pregnant?
Q-I’m pregnant. I feel like my life is over. I’m trying to accomplish so much and I don’t know if I can accomplish anything with a kid. Now what?
A-Facing an unexpected pregnancy is hard. Fear, confusion and anger are just some of the feelings that you may be experiencing. You may see this unexpected pregnancy as a major roadblock in your life. Be encouraged to know that many women in the same situation have found the necessary help and resources to make positive choices and realize their dreams.
You have the right to be fully informed about this important decision. You deserve to know the facts. You have the legal right to choose the outcome of your pregnancy. Real empowerment comes when you find the strength and resources necessary to make your best choice. You have options.
Abortion is not just a simple medical procedure. For many women, it’s a life-changing event with significant physical, emotional and spiritual consequences. Most women who struggle with past abortions say that they wish they had been told all of the facts about abortion. No one can force or pressure you to have an abortion. This is your decision to make. You have the right to continue with this pregnancy.
Choosing to continue your pregnancy and to parent may feel overwhelming at first. The good news is that there are a lot of resources designed to specifically help people in your situation. We’re ready to connect you with these needed resources such as: prenatal care, parenting classes, peer counseling and infant supplies. These resources can help you be successful in your choice to continue your pregnancy. Many women and men find the help they need to make this choice a positive one.
Creating an adoption plan empowers you to fulfill a positive future for yourself and your child. Adoption may not be the first thought in your mind as you face an unexpected pregnancy. However, you may be pleased to learn that you may select the parents who will raise your child and that you may have some level of ongoing relationship with your child, if you wish.
With adoption you have the lifelong satisfaction of knowing that you gave your child the chance for a life of his or her own.
You’re not alone. We’re here for you – each and every step of the way.
