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Aleta Williams
Aleta Williams owns Aleta’s Bras and Lingerie, located at 5601 E. Central (SE Corner of Central & Edgemoor) in East Wichita, offers almost 50-years of experience fitting bras and giving the very best customer service. Aleta’s carries several lines of fashionable swimwear including Gottex, Miracle Suit, and Carol Woir. Aleta also works with ladies who have had breast surgeries, mastectomies, and lumpectomies. You can contact Aleta by phone at (316) 682-0132.
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2011-11-22 12:17:14
I’ve got breast cancer – series
Answer: As you might recall from my previous articles in this series, most women, like you, have dozens of questions. Some of these questions might deal with a second opinion, method of treatment, alternative treatments, radiation, chemotherapy, stigmas, depression support groups, going out in public, clothes, wigs, bras, swimsuits…and a host of other topics. To know that they all fit in one of five areas, is part of the organization that will help you go about handling this challenge. These areas are: physical, mental, social, spiritual and material. This month, we will deal with the spiritual side of being diagnosed with breast cancer…before, during and after treatment. Our well-being is not only based on physical aspects, rather it includes the mental and psychosocial dimensions as well. In viewing a person as a whole, the spiritual aspect also must be recognized, which may vary in concept by different people. The spiritual side of oneself is often an integral part during life’s experiences that challenge us the most. People find spiritual expression in a variety of ways, through conformed religion, as well as art, music and nature. Many refer to the healing of their spirits as a process similar to the healing of their physical ailments, thereby treating the whole person acknowledges the connection between our physical, emotional and spiritual side. When you or a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, you might find yourself turning to your spiritual side more often to help you cope. Or, you may begin to question your faith. Both of these reactions are normal. Whether you are in the process of strengthening or reevaluating your spiritual beliefs, you might want to try the following: • Take time to meditate or pray regularly. This can bring a sense of calm and stability during difficult times. • Read spiritual writings such as the Bible, the Koran, the Book of Psalms, Bhagavad Gita, or other faith-based texts. Delving into sacred texts can put you in touch with ancient traditions of wisdom and give you a sense of connection with a more divine reality. • Seek the help of others. You might begin an ongoing dialogue with a member of your clergy, or join a group for meditation, prayer, and support. • Retreat to spiritual spaces, natural settings, or concerts and museums to cultivate a spiritual sense of peace. • Keep a journal to express your feelings, thoughts, and memories. It can contribute to your process of self-discovery and spiritual development. A diagnosis of cancer can start a process of looking inward for a stronger connection to what is most meaningful and sacred. Out of the turmoil of this crisis, you may find strength and deeper meaning in your life. Perhaps one of the best books I have ever seen on this subject is one written by Anne Marie Bennett, Bright Side of the Road: A Spiritual Journey Through Breast Cancer. It is available at www.amazon.com. Next month, we will talk about the materialistic side of being diagnosed with breast cancer.
 
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