 | Bob Phifer
Cochran Mortuary President, and his wife Terri Cochran Phifer have proudly served Wichita families since 1980. The company has been family owned and operated since 1928, spanning five generations. You may contact Bob at (316) 262-4422. |
Final Arrangements
2003-05-01 14:10:00
Cultural services
ANSWER: As with any funeral or memorial service, the service itself should be a reflection of the life of the deceased. It is not uncommon today to witness very personalized funeral rites. This personalization is not necessarily restricted to culture. A loved one’s hobbies, interests, social involvement in the community and family life can easily be represented by way of mementos, photographs, awards and accomplishments being displayed during visitation periods, memorial gatherings and the funeral itself. The funeral in the Hispanic culture tends to be very traditional in nature. It is common in the Hispanic community for large gatherings to take place at the funeral home prior to the day of the funeral, for the purpose of sharing, prayers, support and socialization. With this, a large portion of the Hispanic community becomes more involved in the funeral process. During this time, relevant cultural artifacts can be displayed and/or cultural music can be tastefully played in the background. Grandmother may have made a special ethnic comforter or family heirloom; Grandfather may have his favorite ethnic clothes to wear. Printed materials for the funeral may be printed in Spanish if desired. Culturally inspired funeral merchandise is available at many funeral homes. By utilizing these items, the gathering, visitation or wake will have a certain cultural “air” about it. After this, should the funeral service be in the church, there might be some limitations, due to church policy or custom, as to what can or cannot be done within the church. It is best to talk before hand with the clergy person who will be asked to perform the funeral ceremony. Be assured, a professional and licensed funeral director will guide you through the necessary steps in making decisions for the tribute to the life of your loved ones.
